123Gwen, My daughter is so devastated and disgusted the only excuses she makes are to not tell him how she feels, having found that keeping quiet is less likely to provoke a defensive response from her dad. Yes, she's the acting adult here.

I agree with you about being open and honest. Truthfully, his actions are already having a (negative) effect on their relationship.

Buttercup

Me 50 H 51
M 17 T 20
D16
H EA Feb 2014
BD Sept 2015
H moved out Nov 2015
W Filed D papers Mar 2016