Welcome to my world IP, when I drop kids all they do is watch TV with their dad or when they spend the day with him, he always takes them to someone with kids!
Inpain and Rouky...I'm sorry. That sux. Mine interacts (more than he did when we were together) with the kids when he comes by but he doesn't come too often.
At some point, hopefully all three will see that their kids are more important than everything and everyone else.