I have a question regarding reconciliation that would be helpful to me as well.
A poster said to me that reconciliation should be more about communication, validation, and hearing one another out. Mediation is more about following lists of demands.
when you reconciled was there a list of compromises/demands that you each brought to the table? Is this a healthy way to reconcile a relationship or does it become a way of control and ultimatums for both parties?
There is something uncomfortable about it to me. Like my husband saying to me we can't reconcile unless you go back to work full time. (He hasn't said this yet but I think he might)
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
