I think it is just the case of the in house separation. They don't actually work. They never get to completely realize you are not the reason behind all of this.
My w is out but she is in the midst of just trying to make herself busy with hangups my with friends every free chance to realize that she could of had everything with me. Don't get me wrong she has done a few things with her time without kids that she prob wouldn't have done before. But this is because she has free time. I don't think she realizes that she places all the blame on me for feeling trapped in a family life
She took the easy way out instead of trying to compromise and make everyone happy.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15