Hey eye tie,

Thanks for posting! Glad to hear your doing well. Sounds like there is so much relief being out of limbo. There is some controversy here as to whether dating is good or bad idea. I know it's not recommended. In your case it worked out well and I am happy hearing your perspective cause it is different.

(If I had proof that husband was with other woman I would probably do the same. I do notice the LBS who go that route seem to gain the attention of WS quicker. )

It also sounds like if your ex wife was willing to work on reconciliation and initiate you would be too?

I am 7 months post husband leaving. We have upcoming talk about whether we work torwards divorce or reconciliation. We both have tons of anger. He is all over the place. To be honest, i am too.


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015