my wife requests space, deattached from me

[WillDo]

The trouble is I have started to get racing thoughts. As going to sleep, she says tomorrow she will be looking at a place with the girls so would need time. She added if we wanted to do counselling. I said yes. She said she would cut contact with OM. Didn't confess to affair. I didnt ask either. And her last word was as I say this weekend you or I go. She is Ok with me being in Amsterdam. Of course how would counselling work? I can come at the day of councilling. I am so tired. Not sure what to do.