Sotto, I think your dinner menu sounds perfect! Everyone will enjoy themselves and will still be talking about the night weeks from now. You are going to be okay and you will be a great hostess! Your guests will appreciate having some place to go to relax and enjoy company of others.
It's good to touch base w/your lawyer every once in a while. They tend to get busy and sometimes things get pushed aside just a wee bit. Hopefully she'll get back to you in a day or so.
Enjoy the rest of your week.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
