That is good advice for the kids. I never know what to say, it is so hard.
Today I didn't do as good with boundaries. I think I took a huge step back. I am sick so I went to school, came home, took a nap when the kids were napping because I am soo tired but he came in the room when I was asleep snoring away.
He wanted to kiss on me and snuggle and I let him for alittle ( until I woke up more and was like go away and he didn't leave) then I was like fine I'm leaving now( his night to watch the kids.) and I left. He drives me nuts but I know i'm just as much to blame.
Now he has 24 hours alone with the kids, the longest I have EVER been gone from them both.
I am frustrated with myself. I FELT so good yesterday and now feel crappy like what is it called temp checking? Is that what he does? Make sure Im not too far away? Honestly not fair when I'm asleep on sick meds trying to sleep. Now I have 6 hours of idk what to do since Im out and about before my mom gets home and she forgot to give meback my house key to her house.