Things are getting better people are commenting on my changes and noticing im bouncing back. Thats good to hear it gives me a bit of an ego boost
Im still in no contact, ive been reading a few site s about relationships and came across a study " does divorce make people happy" and its a bit of an eye opener.
The few things ive learnt along the way are I need to set boundaries and not to try fixing everything Im not responsible for other peoples behaviour only my own Txt messaging is not an appropriate means of communication I need to get better at not engaging in arguments and resolving conflict better Validation and empathy
Like everyone i would like to make my marriage work i believe we could have worked things out . Im not going to act needy or be plan b , im a person i have great qualities and faults like everyone else Michele in twitter wrote something along the lines that people are a package deal and that a new partner will bring with a different set of problems.
