I guess te issue is I don't want te cat but I am holding onto it because we got it? And she will judge if I get rid of it? I am not sure why I care. I have had 2 friends offer to take her without me complaining about her.
Tyler, if you have 2 people that want to take the cat off your hands, LET THEM! The cat can be a wonderful companion for you , but if you don't want it, then give it to someone who does. The cat deserves to have love just like you do. First tell your W that you don't have time for the cat and it's lonel because it misses the dog. Ask her if she want's it. If she says no, tell her that you're giving it to a friend. Then, give it to your friend. How can your W get mad if you gave her first shot at it??
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
