Our D3 is resilient and she needs to see mommy happy. She completely ignores the facts that she is teaching D3 that affairs are acceptable and that it's ok to run away from your problems.
OMG-resilient should say "they don't understand yet but when they do, it will impact them"
SELFISH-go be happy right? Yes....let's make sure she is happy and it will help everyone! obviously sarcastic but it seems to be the trait of the WAW WAH...
It is unfortunately a proven fact the negative impact of divorce on children of any age.
My STBX keeps saying our living arrangement under 1 roof and not spending time together is hurting our daughter. She is confused and starting to ask questions.
I do think its not the best situation. But the alternative of dropping the D bomb on her too as a 6 yr old.....when we haven't figured this all out in terms of living, who leaves, etc.....
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
