Hope is not a Strategy- It looks done

[Squiggy]

You have an L, right? What do they say about finances and all? I'm not going to claim to be able to give advice in that area. Go with what the L states and will protect your daughter the most.

Do not forget this in your worst feeling moments: DBing is to save your marriage and/or to save yourself. You know the steps you need to take to keep moving forward.

If you can before your sit down, go out and GAL for a bit. You'll need to come from a place of strength and (faked) serenity to make it through the discussion.