Yes! You see now, the more you can emotionally distance, the quicker you see the craziness of it all. When you stay involved in it, it's like you're in the spin cycle with them. If we can keep our mouths closed, we take ourselves out of the equation and we can really see what is going on.

P.S. S12 did not eat a good breakfast today. It is your fault and I expect you to fix it. Ha ha!!

Good job! Keep focusing on you and your kids and leave him to Kookooville.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced