Oh, I see what you're saying. Funny, when I read that I laughed. When her WAH said 'why didn't you give me this ultimatum' I almost commented on it. Had she actually dropped an ultimatum like this it would've gotten very ugly, as this clearly hits his exposed nerves of powerlessness. Just goes to show believe none of what they say.

But now I get what you mean. She shouldn't have to say anything for him to provide for his family. That is true. Just like it is true that things don't always work they way they should, and we should do our best to handle that.

Thanks for explaining P.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15