Rich, my W is also living in the past regarding us. I don't even remind her anymore. The actions and struggles I see in her, I believe it's because I am giving the impression of moving on without her. If she can't, leave her to it, move forward for yourself. I told her a few days ago, thank you for waking me up and that she gave up on me too soon and that it was a shame she couldn't see the potential I see. I haven't brought us up since. She asks about what I do everyday. I am finding she wants company, I can be comfortable on my own (as much as I have always loved her company), she has always struggled on her own. She has always lived with roommates, or with me. Very rarely on her own. She is on turmoil, I can see that but the more I leave her alone to those thoughts, the harder it seems to be for her.
