I hear you about that rock bottom (if he can ever reach it... he's managed a LOOONG time just missing it). I was asking about my own preparation for that...best thing in that moment? Gonna start a new thread because I'm ready to pull the plug.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?