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[beckyb]

I could use some perspective.

A couple of things of happened lately. First, I'm nearly positive that A is over. H is communicating a little more and suddenly made me a very generous offer on the house. Via text not his L. I told him I appreciated it but we needed to look at the entire settlement before we decided.

Here's the thing. H's health is not good. He is in a lot of pain. He told me he is seeing 2 news doctors this week but he is feeling hopeless. I am very concerned about his mental state.

I limit my responses to these emails. I expressed my concern and told him I pray for him. And I asked his brother to check on him.

I have a lot of sympathy and concern for H but he has never expressed any 2nd thoughts about the D. But I feel my caregiver self rising up. So I need to balance my concern with proper boundaries.

Any thoughts or advice?-