S4 was with inlaws yesterday, I met them half way to pick him up at W work. In laws were gone by the time I got there. I had both kids and W worked late.
Normal day I fed them played outside with neighbor kids and then W came home. We all sat on the couch and watch TV until it was time for the kids to go to bed, I put them down and then W stayed in her part of the house and I mine.
In the morning we were both up. and I said my god byes and out the door. There is no tension right now. From my side no anger, and I am feeling very comfortable talking and interacting.
We have some old debt that went to collections and now they have an order against me to pay. I am not proud of it, but it is what it is. I have tried to get another loan to pay it off. It is in my name but from W real estate selling days and payment of the bill got missed years ago from W as she was paying bills and money was tight then so this bill got left behind.
My credit is hurt by it but W credit recently is better and she said she will pay it off to get rid of the judgment. They put a lien on the house. With it on the title it makes it messy to sell.
I have no choice but to pay it off this way. It was her debt, just was in my name. With this paid off it will make my credit easier to repair.
It just makes me uneasy as far as S goes as I don't know what this will change if anything. I am thankful she is willing to help me out with this.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
