I am finally catching up on the boards. So good to read your posts. I am an admirer of your attitude and your way of framing the best in everything while never shying away from the darker side. It is an art form but it serves you well.
I understand about your philosophy of trying to stay fluid. Not shutting doors but definitely not staring at them either. Enjoy your life - I have a feeling there will be many gifts awaiting you as move forward.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou