Katie,

Hi, welcome. Hairdog is supposed to be the resident lawyer (or did I get you mixed up with someone else HD? Dunno, its been 8 months since H and I ML so my brain's gone all fuzzy) but like I said Hairdog is supposed to be the resident lawyer (and you can get free advice off him here ) but he is also the resident joker .

Katie, how old are your kids by the way and are you working? More details would help to analyse your sitch.

LH