It is sad that DB'ing has a terrible batting average. Most situations end in D. I guess I'm a "success" story but here's the God's honest truth. If I could go back in time to when the affair was exposed to me, I'd walk away and never look back. Now I feel like I've made such an investment that even though I'll never trust her 100% for the rest of my life I've committed to "good enough". In this cynical world we live in today I guess "good enough" isn't so bad. I have serious doubts that any married couple gets back to great after such a severe betrayal as infidelity. If both spouses claim they have there is a good chance one or both is lying. How do I know this? Because when people tell us how great it is that we worked it out and ask me how we're doing I always reply "we're great, never better" when that's not true. It'll never be like it was. Never.
