And one more random question that keeps popping into my head...
For those of you who took your spouse's name, did you change back to your maiden name? Why or why not?
I don't really want my maiden name. I don't want to have a different name than my daughter. Why do I have to be the one to have a different name than her?? I wasn't the one who wanted to dissolve her family. I don't want to have to go through all the paperwork -- and all the public announcement -- of the failure of my marriage.