Dragonboating requires a lot of strength! I would never have been able to do well in it even in my teens or twenties.
You really are an amazing woman. I don't think I will ever be able to go back to school. Sorry that your H isn't more enthusiastic about the reconciliation efforts but you sound like you're having a great time with or without him.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.