Yes MLC is more like a rotisserie oven!!! But a herky-jerky one!! LOVE this and I am laughing out loud! Go Tfish!!!
After BD but before I knew it was MLC I suggested m counseling. H's very serious response (with straight face and shark eyes): "there is no point, everything is your fault."
When I told the first IC this, she never met him but said anyone who says such a thing has no self awareness whatsoever.
Ding, ding, ding we have a winner!!! Boy, did she call it!!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced