I used to tell her that she held me and my daughters to a different standard to herself & her son. there was also a lot of its your fault that I took to heart or tried to fix thinking that it would make thing better
its good to see your setting goals and well done on getting active. its great you can see your own faults and work thru them. we are going to come thru this regardless wiser and kinder people.
keep moving forward & focusing on the positives
brad
Me: 45 w:45
M:6yrs T:9 Separated aug 15 no contact dec 15 come back july 16 I filed for closure aug 16