A new way of thinking 3, along with a new life

[rich4j]

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I'm so tired of hearing that I'm the reason his life didn't work out the way he hoped. That being married to me is the reason he didn't achieve all his goals - that I ruined his life.

It's hard when it gets down to the final final....but being more of a newbie and some of the advice that I have gotten fits here as it's "just a piece of paper"...that is...the final divorce.

But that he blames you for the reason his life didn't work out is hogwash. What a cop out and you are a good person for not going ballastic on that stuff. I think whether is a H or W....its the same story that "we" are the reason for everything going wrong....no ownership

I almost said to my STBX tonight that I guess I am also the reason ISIS exists too right? Throw that on the list...geez

Hope you power through this very difficult time.