I guess te issue is I don't want te cat but I am holding onto it because we got it? And she will judge if I get rid of it? I am not sure why I care. I have had 2 friends offer to take her without me complaining about her.
Sounds silly but does it prove anything to W if I keep it get rid of the cat? Also. Why do I care?
It's not silly Tyler....its just a reminder of what was....and you still are cognizant of doing the right thing whether she is there or not. And if you did get rid of the cat and she judged you....uh.....TS. :-)
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....