Ancaire- I am so sorry you are dealing with this situation. It will be 2 years in May since BD - the life I knew was over. Does it get easier? For me in some ways it has and in others I just think you learn to cope. Grief is not the same as being resilient. You can transform your life into something spectacular and still grieve for the life you lost. Take your time and be kind to yourself. Baby steps are huge when navigating uncharted territory. I can feel your strength and hopefulness leap off the screen. Hang in there!
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
