Hi Mu, I am sorry to hear about your pic frame story. I am even more sorry to say that I have done similar things throughout my M. I was.never one for taking pics. I was always convinced that I look horrible. The prob was xh was interested in photography but I hated having my pics taken or framed.
That was when I was going through my mini MLC, or my existential angst.
Here's the thing: it was more of what was happening within me than it was about the xh. It was also about the xh and the M but on hindsight it was a lot of self- loathing.
And now on hindsight, I can see how hurtful my actions were. If one day, your W snaps out of it, she will feel the anguish.
Her actions really aren't about you now. It's about herself.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
