W pushed and pushed to get a kitten. We already had a cat and a dog and at first I said no. Not happening. I'm not a cat guy and though I like dogs, I can easily live without. Eventually I partially broke down and said ok. As long as you feel you can handle training it and all that.
That bought me a good 6 months until a friend had a batch of kittens and she fell in love with one. So guess who got a new kitten.
Now guess where the kitten she had to have is..... That's right. She took the dog and older cat which was fine. She had the first cat before we met and the dog I got her as a companion when she first moved to my place so she had a friend. But the new cat was left with me. Not because I wanted it but because she didn't.
This cat drives me nuts. First it goes into heat and I'm ready to strangle it. Now it has started pissing on S3 bed...
Will the kids miss the cat? No. Will W be mad I gave it away, probably. The cat is lonely. She used to play with the dog all day and now she had no one all day. And I don't do cats so she doesn't get attention from me either.
Before someone writes it. No I am not getting another cat. And I don't have time to properly train a dog. So that's out.
I guess te issue is I don't want te cat but I am holding onto it because we got it? And she will judge if I get rid of it? I am not sure why I care. I have had 2 friends offer to take her without me complaining about her.
Sounds silly but does it prove anything to W if I keep it get rid of the cat? Also. Why do I care?
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
