Hi Mu. I am sorry that your W's behavior is so hurtful. My H shredded some pictures of me shortly after BD and despite all that he has done, that remains one of the more painful things to me. I don't know why she took down the picture, or why she shuts herself in her room. I am glad that you are there for your son, and that you are keeping busy with some GAL activities.
Your W is on her own journey. We can't know what is in her mind, or if she will ever come out of it. I am sorry that this is so painful Mu. Please know that you have people who value you, who care about you and want to see you succeed and find happiness regardless of what happens with your w.
