Man O'Malley, my WW says the same crud about me bringing us to the brink of D. Her A has absolutely nothing to do with it. Crazy, I tell you. She also has said that I should have moved out to allow her to miss me and give her room to think. I shouldn't have hovered around her so much and insisted on taking about our relationship so much early on but I don't regret not moving out. I also kept the MBR for symbolic purposes.
The words will hurt but, at least in my case, I think it is her trying to push my buttons. Don't let your W see the pain. Show her confidence and if you can't, do like others on this board have suggested and fake it until you make it. I wish you the best.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016