One of my friend is surprised that I don't ask STBXH where he is going to leave. I just told her that he's the father of my children and I trust him to do what's best for them. She replied how can you trust him after what he did to you?
I don't trust him with me but not with our kids. He has been a better father than he was for his first daughter, and yes I trust him not to put our kids in danger and to look after them. At the end of the day we are no longer together, and I believe that he has to make his own decision regarding his relationship with his kids. I'm not getting involved with it.
Not been getting much GAL lately as work is crazy. I'm also looking forward to go and see my parents next week. Always wanted to do it when dad was in hospital with leukaemia, and braver done it as I felt guilty to leave STBXH as he had lost his mother and I felt it was rubbing it in his face. Now I do what I want!
Need a bit of advice. STBXH has texted today about him being on his way to town and was wondering if I was dropping kids to him or would it be easier if he was to pop in. When I saw his message I was dropping the kids. I'm tempted to reply that if next time he wants to pop round he can. Why I want to do that it's because since I have been dropping kids he never asked if he could come round, so I see it as a tiny tiny baby step from him. He has even offered to come earlier to look after kids when I'm going to see family.
