Hi Rain, just been catching up on your previous thread. I know exactly how you feel about XF's phone and the texting. I feel the same when my H uses his phone, always have since his EA/PA. My H also does what your XF does and sometimes tells me who he is texting to "reassure" me. Sadly it doesn't reassure me as he used to tell me he was texting a male colleague when he was actually texting OW right in front of my face! Well done for biting your tongue about it, I know how hard that is!
I don't know how to get over it inpain. I really don't. I have fantasies about ice picking his phone. A lot. And I got the same bit as you, when texting ow in front of me. He has never been one to get many texts and even less calls. Except during affair. And then it was always one of the guys from work. Always. At dinner time. At 6am. At 1am. Yep. Always. Ugh.
Now that he has semi-admitted certain things about the cam girls..I can only guess it's them or whoever he "met".
They're horrible liars. But I just want to not let it drive me crazy. He has enough crazy to go around. I just don't know how to get there.
