She just stated that I am bringing her to the state of divorce by acting like this and not moving out. She blames me for the hardship. I said I am so n the spare room. She said let me miss you. Live out! ( I lived a year in Amsterdam and she found OM). She asked me to back off. I said I am and I will.

I said plenty. She can use my depression for grounds. I fear to be declared incapable.

For me to take the pressure off my wife.

I feel ok to have spoken out. I needed to say something.


Me: 43, W: 43
M: 16, T: 18
D - 7, D - 7
ILUB: 26 August 2014
Still living together