my wife requests space, deattached from me

[brutus3]

When I started to suspect my wife's 2nd EA, I decided to move out just a couple of weeks ago. I was in limbo for about 4 months before I decided to so. I would not put up with being lied to any more and I told her I couldn't be her "friend".

The way I see it, she's "sick" right now and it needs to run it's course before she'll come back. Through our baby monitor, that she never got around to disconnecting, (even after I told her to do so) I found out she got stupid drunk this weekend with her friend and they brought a couple of strange guys into my old house at 2am. Is that how a normal 40 yo mom should act? Hell no. She's a mess and she's unhappy. I don't want to be with a woman like that.