V-

Wanted to send you hugs.

I just love hugs, my prime LL is physical touch (include naughty rude things) and then acts of service (include dinner parties).

I see a lot of introspection and personal growth.

Thank you, it's important to me to resolve certain issues.

Now that you've identified things that you can control and what you are responsible for, what are your next steps?


They fall in four main areas

This is where I will be in twelve months

1. WEALTH
I resolve all my financial debt and stabilise my business putting it on a sound footing

I am selling the big house and I release the value to pay off my debts

I have moved into my own offices for my business

I have settled the D finances satisfactorily

I have brought the business issues up to date and am forward planning

2 HEALTH
I have lost all of the weight and I am fit and active

I am Free from the PTSD and have a calm serene mind

I enjoy good quality sleep

I eat nutritious food, my diabetes is stabilised

I enjoy the sauna and swimming

3. MIRTH
I have kept on GAL and more GAL

I go dancing every week

I enjoy holidays every year, films every week and friendship every day

I visit my family and glam sis, aged pa and clever nephew every alternate month

Gratitude and spirituality fill my day and with meditation I reflect and pray

4.WORTH

I find self worth and I attend at least 3 improvement courses

I have taken exams in counselling, I keep on DB and applying the principles

I continue to improve my interactions with others and set appropriate boundaries which I enforce


Have you started reworking your goals?

Goals are above

My action plan runs to pages and pages........

Is there a need?

oh yes I do think so. I have no plans for R new or old. I still stand for M and do not even think of dating until D is completely over. In addition I have closed the door on WH completely. I am very afraid of WH, he is unpredictable and abusive. So all of the normal things like validating, leaving the path home smooth, acting like a lighthouse do not apply to me. The path home has land mines, the lighthouse has no bulb and I am completely NC, dark, pitch black, silent. Done.

Thinking of you and sending as many good vibes as I can to you

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Jellyb and I refer to it as rainbow strength, as it's a lovely warm thing to send and feel.

Enjoy rainbows back.

Hugs

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW