my wife requests space, deattached from me

[WillDo]

Ignore. I feel it more as limbo. Waiting and waiting. Changing and changing. At times I would go through the 180 you collated, read the MLC chapter and so on. Ignore would mean ignoring that something is wrong. Use "as if" technique to feel positive. That is a way to cope witth depression. CBT is another way. Mindfulness another. I harness these to cope with depession.

I simply don't know. Thinking too rational on emotional intelligence.