Hey OTW and Vapo,

I only mentioned it because I was feeling the pull for another R. Of course the logical side of me thinks its too soon. I am sure its is a struggle for some on here as it is for me. I know I don't want to but I have the thoughts and I test myself to see where I truly am with this.

Part of me thinks that W can sense what I am feeling and this will change things.

I need to still be in it for me and the kids.

So for valentines day, W will be taking the kids to her parents house so I was thinking the kids could do a breakfast for her before they go.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016