Hi Isit, I'm sorry to hear that. It sounds like it was a tough day for you both (((Isit)))) I had a similar impasse with finances with my H. He wanted to sell our house. I would only do that as part of full settlement (as per L advice). He would only Settle finances as part of a D. As you say, your W will be guided by her L I guess - as will you.
One thing I would say is I wouldn't limit yourself to furnished properties only. You've probably seen what the market is like locally already and nice places tend to go like hot cakes. Best to cast your net as widely as you can.
I used a couple of furniture thrift shops to furnish my place (and a few bits from our marital home.) The thrift stuff all came on a big van a few days later, and I figure I'll donate it all back when I'm properly sorted - and it all benefits them. It's all nice stuff (truly I have high standards ) The only things I bought new were mattresses and a sofa cover. I guess I spent about �300 in all and my flat is a little palace.
Just a thought anyway - and I know the good places if you want to get stuff
I'm off to a DRW event in a minute.....soon you'll be able to pick and choose some of the stuff you do with them too.
Take care
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
) The only things I bought new were mattresses and a sofa cover. I guess I spent about �300 in all and my flat is a little palace.
