Its been 8 months since my last post and I just wanted to share my final chapter in the story of my marriage.
My divorce was final on Oct. 16th and we put our house on the market later that month. The madness continued with my WW and during it all I met someone that I fell madly in love with. The WW made several attempts to derail my new relationship and became even more unpredictable. Sadly the ExWW used her 1/2 of my 401K to buy a nice new car, get a neck tattoo and a boob job. January rolled around and the ExWW is begging me for money and is broke. I had to install cameras in my house to keep her from stealing my belongings. My kids are adjusting well and since we have 50/50 custody I've been more active and have never felt closer to them. I only deal with the ex when needed and I never speak poorly of her to my kids. Today I am a better version of myself. I am happier than I have been in 20 years and I look back and wonder how long I would have just gone through the motions of my life.
I am here to tell you things happen for a reason, even if don't understand it at the moment.
Thank you to everyone that shared your stories, gave advice, and followed my saga. I found comfort in knowing I wasn't alone and learned so much about myself as a result of this forum.
So if your new here, pick your head up and let the sun dance on your face. As one story ends a new one begins.
Me42 W40 S12 D8 M:15yrs BD 3/27/15 D filed 4/27/15
