Defiantly treading lightly. I personally thought I was ready but the confusion is still there. With new girl, it has been nothing physical whatsoever.

With XF, I'm not saying all the spewing was justified, but I usually could pin where it came from. Whether rumors, misunderstandings or something else... I could typically pin the source of it, usually it wasn't me but it was aimed at me. This time it came out of thin air.

Gut feeling at this point is do nothing and figure myself out. New girl is aware of my whole situation and where I stand, is perfectly fine just being a friend at this point.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home