Julie, we're in a agreement. My viewpoint is that he shouldn't go freely offering everything up to her all the time. That doesn't negate responding to questions asked. It's more about Jim setting boundaries and not letting his WAW control him.

I didn't say to stonewall his W. I definitely agree with you on that point. Even when I was at my angriest, I didn't stonewall my W. I went with the minimum necessary rule regarding S6. She was aware of all important things, if she needed to be, such as doctor's visits, bruises, etc. Otherwise, he could tell her we went with me to the park or museum. If she asked, I would say Yep. We had a great time there, and he did awesome.


M: 8.5 T:10
Me:37 W:34 S:6

Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15
Piecing - 7/4/15 to present