WW hope to reconcile

[J5K]

Julie,

I am not doing this to spite her. Because in her eyes I have failed at all the other things she has asked me to do she may believe that I may not be doing a good job raising the boys.

I don't know what she is thinking and at this point don't really care because she can't get passed the fact that she is choosing to be away and only wants to focus on past actions and fault me for everything.

I just want to move on from that be myself again and take care of the boys.

I am a nice and respectful person but I am busy enough everyday as a single parent and don't have time to justify everything to her at this time. She needs to wake up and smell the coffee that no action by her is also an action.

I have my plan to move to Toronto no matter what the outcome of the D, but as people have previously said, it may be best if custody stayed with me, then she can decide what type of parent she would like to be, at least I will be the one that is there for the boys everyday. I don't plan on taking a break from my kids. I signed up for this and will be their for them always.d