My friend doesn't know that her friend is my STBXH's OW's sister, so I have no intention of mentioning it to her. I'm just realising how small the world is! My friend is hoping that we will reconcile. Honestly I don't know. I still love him much, unfortunately he isn't showing any sign of wanting to!
I realised that when I started DB he was back with OW ( I didn't know at the time), before he went back to her I had a window of 3 months as I could see he wasn't fully gone. I guess the pleading got the best of him and he went back to her. Only me to blame for this.
Oh well, nothing I can do expect pray and hoping for the best.