I agree that if she reconnects it will set us way back. But there is no way I will know if she does. So I will move forward doing the best that I can. Staying positive.
Trust is the hardest thing for you to do right now. I totally understand that. I quoted this because you said the right thing - move forward with PMA. That is all you have control of.
Now here is the part that is great to focus on and to really think about. It seems like your wife is taking the actions to earn back your trust and return to the MR. She's turning on her phone tracking, planning to send you texts, taking photos as proof, giving you access to electronic media, validating you, etc. Much like we have to do consistent change and actions, so does the wayward spouse. These are the things you need to keep looking for.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
