I'm in the same boat G, just keep remembering that it is a cloud that passes. I've backed completely off of my wife and letting her figure things out with new guy, maybe it will work out for them maybe not. My path is the same either way. Getting so many emotions now that I'm wondering if I would ever take a chance on my WW again should things not work out. It's amazing how cruel / hurtful people can be, and I thing I deserve someone faithful / loyal. I am definitely having a tough time accepting that it is over, there's hope in me that just will not die.
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)
