If my husband was doing things to intentionally spite me, I would be able to justify it as more of a reason to stay away from him. I think you have to come up with a clear line between not getting taken advantage of and not doing things to spite her. I do think of the nice things husband did for well being of kids. (During Christmas he did not push for them to leave our party to spend time with his family. They did not want to go. It would have been a lot of driving back and forth for them in one day. He came to them and visited for a while instead. I will always think of this kindness).
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
