Hey OTW,

You got me in a couple of tears. I mean the kids asking you to stay and get back together. Its so sad that kids are the innocent ones in the middle. To them the solutions are so easy.

My kids don't even know that we are S yet. My kid got me and my W to sit on the same couch together. Kids do have some power in the sitch. Again I read your posts and see my possible future.

I wish you all the best.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016