11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Thanks NYGal. Honestly, it made me question if we can ever really get to the other side. I'm going to the DMV then shopping and if it gets warm enough then taking the kids to the park.
So he just showed up so he could use his phone in your bathroom? That's smart.
Originally Posted By: NYGal
He was looking for the missing condoms perhaps?
OMG! You're cracking me up, and I'm supposed to be asleep. Good thing I didn't see this while I was working. They would have wondered what I was laughing at. LOL!!!
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
Lmao NYGal! Stop it! You know damn well he got a defective batch of condoms that poof! Disappear into thin air.
What? I thought he got the box where the condoms jumped out and took off running to hide. I must have been thinking of a different XF. LOL
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Lastly when mines PA ended by his choice btw...we stayed together. I shouldn't have. It's also true that when you R too quickly it. Doesnt. Work. That blasted ow is still fresh in their minds and they will cycle. Mine cycled by starting an EA. Some cycle by simply going back to R/M and continuing to pursue ow on the side again. It's not fun and It's not pretty.
I can testify to that! Remember my 12 day R with H. It ended with him taking a week off then running right back to her.
Originally Posted By: Rain75
They are so much more intune when they feel something is "off".
My point of the above is that the APs can sense when they're number 1 spot is in jeopardy. They start to become us and get jealous and fight.
Again, remember my 12 day R with H? Right before he took a week off, he was ending it with me and she STROLLED RIGHT INTO OUR HOUSE TO MAKE HER PRESENCE KNOWN. Grrrrrr......
And then I did the perfect thing. I let her have him. Oh, wait. I guess that wasn't the perfect thing. But, I do now realize that I can't control him or his choices no matter how stupid they are. The point is that they do cycle right back of out your life and back into theirs. And, those pesky ow DO get jealous and March right back into our spouses lives. You would think after all the time we've put in that we would have more pull than them. But, doesn't seem to be that way.
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M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
